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LinkedIn Connection Requests – How to Send to Grow Your Personal Brand

Our personal brands were not meant to exist in a silo.

I’m a firm believer that our personal brands are only as strong as the impact we make on others in our respective communities.  One of the best ways to grow your community, and expand your impact and influence, is through LinkedIn.  An engaged community and audience on LinkedIn can help boost your brand to where people would like to either work with you, work for you, or refer you to others.

Why am I so passionate about using LinkedIn? LinkedIn is considered the business and professional social media platform, with over 294 million monthly active users.  It’s where industry professionals come together to share content, network, and build their brands.  Monthly active users and content creation on LinkedIn really exploded in 2020, and the hospitality industry is using the power of LinkedIn to connect with clients in this B2B environment.

It’s where I predominantly hang my hat as a hospitality professional, and I have used the platform to grow my business using inbound marketing strategies.  While there are great applications for our industry on Facebook and Instagram,  I find most of the professionals in our industry hang out on LinkedIn to connect with like-minded individuals.  Connecting with others and starting a relationship is easier to do on LinkedIn versus sending a Facebook friend request.

However, sending LinkedIn invitations does have some etiquette involved.  Some LinkedIn connection requests can really stand out, and make the request easier for the recipient, and some invitations can fall flat.

Here are 6 Ways That You Can Send LinkedIn Connection Requests to Help Grow Your Network and Your Personal Brand:

  1. Send a personalized message – When you look to send an invitation request to your intended audience, LinkedIn will auto-fill your request with a generic message (“Hi, I’d like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn.).  If you want to stand out, modify the generic message and personalize it, including points of reference.  Let them know WHY you’d like to connect with them, or reference one of the following below:
    1. Where you first heard of the individual – Did you meet the individual at a networking event, or perhaps heard them on a podcast or in a Clubhouse room? Or perhaps their thoughtful comment on a post caught your attention.  Reference where the individual and their content caught your eye to create some common ground and reason for connecting with you.
    2. Reference common connections – Do you have mutual professional connections or colleagues, or thought leaders that you like to follow? Ensure you reference these common connections as a way to build the bridge of trust towards your new connection.
    3. Reference common groups or interests – if you belong to the same LinkedIn group, mention the group and ask about their experience within the group.  Bonus points if you reference a discussion from the group that you feel your new connection may find value in.
  2. Provide value – You can really stand out by giving your potential connecting something of value – a resource, a website link or another connection. It can reference the work that they do, or perhaps another interest they have as evident in their profile.  The valuable insight is not in exchange for anything, but rather given freely and without expectation of a return gift.  The same value-based contribution can be given to those that connect with you first.
  3. Don’t sell – As with all social media platforms, LinkedIn is not where you sell your product all the time, especially to those you are trying to connect with.  LinkedIn is where you start selling YOU and your personal brand.  The hard sell will not work here, especially in the initial connection request invitation,  and you’ll lose interest from your new connection if you try to feature-dump your product 24/7.  Rather, use LinkedIn as a place to build trust in you as their advisor, and in your product as a solution.  When the time comes for the sell, you will have built up some credibility and trust, and the transition will be much easier. Make the connection request about them, and less about you and your product.
  4. Like, share, and comment on their posts – Engage with your 2nd or 3rd-degree connection by engaging in their content before you send a connection request; this will increase your visibility with the connection tenfold.  They will see your name, and your comment prior to the connection request, thus making the request more warm in nature.  Thank them for the content in your connection request, and post a thoughtful comment or ask a thoughtful question in return. Engaging in other comments also increases your visibility with other members of their network.  Go beyond the “like” and the “great post”, and provide your thought leadership into the discussion to increase the likelihood of them accepting your request.
  5. Tag your 2nd-degree connection when you see like-minded content.  If you are aware of your 2nd-degree connections areas of thought leadership, tag them into discussions posted by others on LinkedIn.  Your tag will end up in their notifications, and make your connection request more relevant.   Remember to only tag content that you know they would find interesting or valuable.  You don’t want to come across as spammy by tagging them on every single piece of content you read.  Be selective to what they would find of value.
  6. Don’t forget to nurture your advocates – extend invitations to those that have engaged on your content, and nurture them to find other like-minded individuals that may find value in your future content.  This is a great way to find communities to help grow your personal brand.

Connecting with hospitality professionals with LinkedIn connection requests can lead to great client relationships as well as mutual interests and content.  There are tons of great resources about other connection best practices, here is one straight from LinkedIn.

Are you currently using LinkedIn to grow your brand and your network of community members?  Consider creating content on LinkedIn to attract your ideal community members, and start to roll out some invitations.  Not sure what to post?  Consider my 5-day LinkedIn Content Challenge!  I’ll walk you through how to set up five of LinkedIn’s most engaging and popular content types, with some tips and tricks to help you create your own stand-out content for your new connections.  Sign up for the challenge here.

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